I hate to post her sig seeing as how I see you everyday and I could just tell you my thoughts but I had a point I wanted to mention that might help others to understand what I think you want.
I noticed while watching Lord of the Rings this effect, the colors are all to perfect, they are like paintings... like every single frame had work done to it in Photoshop.
I have the extended-extended full-length 4 disks set of both the first movie and second. I did not realize how the performed this effect until I sat through 8 hours of behind the scenes stuff. They use a program (I assume similar to shake or shake itself) to actually do what I just mentioned, go through every frame with color correction, it is stunning. They take an image that looks like we shot it and turn it into what you see. This is just done with color correction alone. The process is called Digital Grading.
The affect sig wants out of his "lighting or white balance" does not sound like it can be solved by this but in reality... this works. If you know a technique that performs a Digital Grading look I think sig would like to know about it.
That is not the only thing though that he asking about. I cannot answer his questions because I only know so much... we are both pushing to figure this stuff out, looking at a lot of pro work and comparing it to ours. I guess we (and by we I mean mostly me) are just confused as to why Cold Mountain had the same setup as we do and they produced that. I cannot speak for sig here but I know Digital Grading would greatly improve his shots in a fashion he wants.
I can host those files for you sig... after all, you did link to my server once for that iPod video (then proceeded to rip on it and say your copy of it was better) but it's ok, I'm a nice guy.