When I shoot night for day interiors I try and establish a sunny and shady side of the room/house depending on the blocking or mood of the scene. I also try and imagine what time of day and what the weather is like outside. This helps me determine contrast both in color and luminance. Although it tends to be harder to accomplish, I try not to entirely burn the window; retaining some sort of detail increases the believability of the image.
Assuming I want to create a sunny day this is how I treat the sunny side windows.
-As Mark suggested sheers are your best friend when shooting night of day. They are great to break up a plain window.
-Each window gets a M90 with Lee 251 and some sort of warming gel (1/4, 1/2, CTO or CTS depending). I used to be an 18K guy, but as we need to move faster M90s with a little diffusion work and pack a nice punch. This represents the sun
-Each window gets a M40 or M25 bounced into an 8x8ft ultra bounce that is above the window. The light is gelled with 1/2 or 3/4 CTB. This represents the Skylight.
-Each window gets treated/skinned with a Hampshire or Lee 252 1/8 Diffusion. This allows the shaft of daylight to enter the room, but glows enough that it looks like day time outside. Depending on the angle you might need an additional layer. Also if you have some help from Art Dept you might have some details (tree branches, fire escape, flower box....) that you can feel. This gives a greater sense of depth.
I hope this helps
-Lastly make sure the grip dept separate all the shafts of light so that you only get one shadow.