Hi thanks for your reply, and I see your point about the focal length of human vision not mattering. I need to clarify what I'm trying to do though - it's not to film an actual window, it's to film a landscape and then by projecting it in the gallery space we'd be creating a kind of virtual window. The objects in the image should appear life-size though, and that's where I believe the focal length comes into play.
But based on your logic, we could just hold up a tape measure and say, 12' should just fill the frame vertically, when the camera is 15' away? Makes sense! Is it possible to figure this out before going on location though, so we book the right lenses?